Is Abortion or Adoption Right for Me?

Facing an unexpected pregnancy can feel overwhelming—especially as you’re trying to decide which option is right for you. 

At Baywater Women’s Clinic, we believe you deserve all the information and support you need to make an informed choice that aligns with your values and circumstances.

Read on to learn more about your pregnancy options—or contact us today to find a safe, supportive space to think through your decision.

Do You Want to Parent?

The first question to ask yourself is whether you want to parent. If the answer is yes, you owe it to yourself to fully explore this option fully. 

You might not feel ready to parent, but many resources are available to help you succeed, including parenting classes, financial assistance, and community support programs. 

Understanding Adoption and Abortion

If you’ve ruled out parenting, your other pregnancy options are adoption and abortion. 

Adoption 

Today’s adoption is all about honoring your desires and goals. You get to choose the adoptive family and can create a personalized plan for your child’s future. 

You can choose an open, semi-open, or closed adoption depending on how much contact you want to maintain, allowing you to give your child a stable environment while pursuing your own goals.

Abortion 

Abortion is the only option that terminates your pregnancy. However, it’s important to understand the risks, including potential physical complications (such as infection or heavy bleeding) and emotional challenges (like anxiety, depression, or regret).

Questions to Ask Yourself

Only you can determine what pregnancy option is right for you, and asking yourself the following questions can help you get your head around what choice might be best:

• What level of involvement, if any, do I want in my child’s life?
• How do my values and beliefs influence my decision?
• What option am I leaning toward and why?
• How might I feel if I choose adoption, abortion, or parenting? And what might my life look like?

Why an Ultrasound is Essential

Before making any pregnancy decision, it’s critical to get an ultrasound first. This simple scan will give you the information you need to protect your health. 

We’re Here to Help

At Baywater Women’s Clinic, we understand this decision isn’t easy. Our team is here to provide accurate information, compassionate support, and access to resources like ultrasounds and counseling. 

Whether you’re considering abortion, adoption, or parenting, we’ll walk alongside you as you decide what’s best for your future. Reach out to us today. You’re not alone in this. We’re here for you.