What Can I Do if My Parents Want Me to Get an Abortion That I Don’t Want?

Many women have been pressured into abortion over the years, but you don’t have to be. Even if the pressure is coming from your parents, you never have to choose something you do not want.

In fact, it’s illegal for anyone to coerce or force you to have an abortion. The Center Against Forced Abortions (CAFA) provides educational resources to help you navigate talking with your parents.

However, you might not be in a forced situation and instead feel subtle pressure. Keep reading for tips on how to handle this. You can also visit Baywater Women’s Clinic to talk with a caring team member and receive no-cost, early pregnancy services.

Have an Honest Conversation

Often, pressure stems from fear. Maybe your parents are afraid of what pregnancy might mean for your education, career, or finances. They may even think about the impact it will have on them as future grandparents.

Talk with your parents openly and honestly. What are they afraid of? Why do they want you to abort? Explain your feelings as well, so you can gain some common ground.

Find Helpful Resources

It’s completely normal for you or your parents to worry about the essentials. 

However, finding out about all the helpful resources available to you (free diapers, wipes, formula, housing assistance, maternity homes at colleges, etc.) can help you see the possibilities. Learn about your assistance options so you can get a clear picture of what pregnancy and parenting might realistically look like for you.

You may also find yourself wondering about adoption when in this situation. Birth mothers do not have to pay for any adoption or pregnancy medical expenses when they choose to place their child for adoption.

You Don’t Need to Convince Them

While knowing about your options and resources can help you move forward, and even help your parents see what’s attainable for you, you do not need to convince your parents to agree with your choice.

The truth is, you are the pregnant woman, and even if you are a minor, you have full control over what happens next.

You don’t have to face this difficult circumstance alone. Schedule a no-cost appointment at Baywater Women’s Clinic today for confidential support and pregnancy services. We can talk about your situation and help you every step of the way.